Monday, March 15, 2010

Count your blessings....

 We are blessed with so, many good things in our lives..... This is just a reminder....
I thank God for giving me this life, even though at times when my spirits are low I may not appriciate it.... I am going to try to appriciate this life more and be thankful and content always.... Inshallah( If God wills).

The following story, which I have received from a friend by email, carries an important lesson that we all should learn.

There was an old woman who lived with her only child in a simple, roofless room at the top of an old building. The door of the room was in a very bad state, and it did not work well. Getting bored with fixing it, the woman took it off and put it against one of the walls.

This may be endurable in summer, but what about winter? How can this woman and her little child spend a rainy, cold winter in such a room with no roof or even door?

Winter came with its freezing winds and rain. One day, the sky became cloudy, and it began to heavily rain, directly on the heads of the woman and her child. Unlike other people who had impenetrable roofs and who could protect themselves against rain by closing their doors and windows, this old woman had no shelter to protect her and her little boy.

The helpless woman found nowhere to escape the heavy rain except that broken, useless door. She took her child tightly in her arms and shrank beneath the leaning door, which now proved very useful.

No matter how hard we may try, we would never be able to change our destiny. Hence, we should accept it and submit to the will of our Lord.
Luckily, the rain did not last for a long time; it stopped soon and the sun came up again. Happy with this simple shelter that protected them from getting wet, the boy said to his mother, "Praise be to Allah that we have this door, Mom. What can those who do not have such a door do?"

This innocent child felt so content and satisfied with such conditions that many of us may consider as bad. That was because he looked at the full half of the cup, not the empty one. We all should act likewise, if we are to achieve a true sense of happiness and contentment.

You Have More Than You Think

It is true that many people have more than you. But, you are also bestowed with many things that others do not have:

* You have two eyes, but some others have one or none.
* You have two legs, while there are others who cannot walk.
* You can eat whatever you wish. Think of those who are forbidden by their doctors from a long list of foods and those who find nothing to eat.
* You drink clean water, and there are thousands, or even millions, of others who drink unclean water.
* You have a few children, while others long to have only one.
* Your children have a father who supplies their needs. Have you ever thought about those kids who lost their fathers in wars, accidents, or disasters?
* You have a flat or a house to live in, while there are many others who face expulsion, living in tents or in the open.
* You live safely in your country, while millions of others are jeopardized by raids, bombings, and other threats.
* You are free, knowing not about many sincere reformers who are unlawfully imprisoned and deprived of their most basic right: freedom.

Even if you do not have many of the forgoing blessings, you surely have many others.


  1. You are so right that with gratitude, comes a profound sense of how blessed we are. Gratitude is one of the strongest feelings a human can have, next to love. We all need to stay focused on being grateful for all our blessings, both the good and the bad. Bad things also happen for a reason and are often the path to greatness.

  2. Hello RYF,
    Absolutely,I too believe that anything good or bad happens for a reason, and even though at that moment we feel why this has happened.... sooner or later the answer to the "why?" presents itself.... :)

    Thanks for dropping by.....:)

    Cheers Always

  3. What a wonderful blog! I am so glad that you stopped by mine, so that I could find you :) Gratitude is something we so often don't think to feel, always focusing on the negative...but so powerful to change our happiness and attitude. Love this blog so much I have linked to it (and I am not one to link a lot...ooh 'linkalot' sounds cute)...I really think that reading this could help my friends as well :)

  4. Thank's so much... West..
    I am glad to see you here.... and Thank you again for liking my blog so much and linking it also.. and yeah "linkalot" does sound cute:))

    Cheers Always

  5. Thank's Renu, Thank you for visiting my blog:)